Archive for November, 2015

Don’t Become a Victim of Financial Scams or Abuse

Posted on: November 27th, 2015 by Lawrence A. Friedman

Seniors (and some disabled people) are a natural target for people up to financial no-good.  Seniors and disabled people may be more dependent on others, which can make them easy targets.


Some defenses are just a matter of common sense.  Don’t disclose passwords or account personal identification numbers/words and don’t make them easy to guess.  Thus, you never should use your name or birthday as your password.  Be skeptical.  If it sounds too good to be true it probably is.  Are you really very likely to have won a sweepstakes you don’t remember entering and never even heard of?  Why would a stranger contact you out of the blue to give you millions of dollars?  If an email claims to be from a major company, check whether it comes from that company’s website or one with only a similar name.


Don’t sign a contract until a lawyer has reviewed it.  It’s particularly risky to sign a care facility contract for a relative.  As discussed in other entries on this blog, signing a care facility agreement can make you liable for bills if the facility doesn’t get paid.  Sure there are defenses to such claims, but do you really want that headache?  Besides, at the end of the day, you could be found liable despite your defenses.


Finally, protect yourself against financial abuse.  Only give power of attorney to loved ones who are trustworthy.  An unrelated caregiver never should have control of your finances.  Authorize your financial institutions to share information with trustworthy loved ones.  Current privacy laws can preclude a bank or brokerage firm from sharing information about your finances with your family or even anti-abuse watchdogs.  While proposed regulations may lessen such limitations, at this point, it is up to you to be proactive.


While anyone can become a victim of financial abuse, there are steps you can take to protect yourself.  FriedmanLaw is here to help you get your legal affairs in order.  We look forward to hearing from you.


Protect Your Loved One with Special Needs

Posted on: November 19th, 2015 by Lawrence A. Friedman

Over the 30+ years I’ve represented families of people with serious disabilities, many clients have asked how how to make gifts or leave an estate for a child/grandchild/other loved one with special needs without disqualifying the child for Supplemental Security Income, Medicaid, and other means tested government programs.  If an individual with Medicaid or other means tested aid receives more than nominal amounts directly, she probably will be disqualified.  While we often can help restore benefits eventually, there could be a substantial cost such as eventual Medicaid payback or loss of benefits for several months or more.


Obviously, therefore, outright gifts/inheritances are not an attractive option to benefit a loved one with special needs.  A far better choice is to provide in will, payable on death designations, IRA/401 plan beneficiary forms, and other gift and estate plans that amounts to benefit a child with special needs shall be paid into a special needs trust (also called supplemental needs trust or SNT).  Extensive discussions of SNTs appear under the Special Needs drop down menu tab above and throughout  To summarize, a properly drafted SNT can supplement many kinds of means tested benefits without risking disqualificatiion.


Sometimes parents won’t do SNT planning because they think they can reach the same result at lower cost by giving a child who isn’t disabled a gift or inheritance intended to benefit a special needs child.  The Wisconsin Court of Appeals’ Sept. 3, 2015 decision in Robins v. Foseid and Walters illustrates the risk.  A parent’s estate plan left a double share to not disabled child A and no share to disabled child B.  While the parent’s intent likely was that A would spend the second share for B, the court ruled that A had no such obligation and could spend the share as A chooses.


Even if you are convinced that your child would always look out for a disabled sibling, it still is risky to leave a disabled child’s share to a sibling rather than an SNT.  The not disabled child could surprise you and keep the money and creditor issues, divorce, college funding and other circumstances could prevent the money from benefiting your disabled child.  In short, a special needs trust usually is the best way to provide for a loved one with a serious disability


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